Footballers are cheats, girls throw themselves at my fella – that's why I always know where he is, says Nicola McLean | GLV0TM2 | 2024-02-08 03:05:01
But destiny had other plans for the then-glamour mannequin, who tied the knot with footballer Tom Walker in 2009 – although she had plen
WHEN Nicola McLean was single within the Noughties she was positive about one thing – when she found adore it wouldn't be with a footballer.
But destiny had other plans for the then-glamour mannequin, who tied the knot with footballer Tom Walker in 2009 – although she had plenty of reservations and she or he argues with good cause.
The 42-year-old mum of two boys says: "Again once I was a Web page Three woman, a great deal of glamour models have been hooking up with footballers.
"But I knew that so lots of them have been cheats and that wasn't one for me.&
"I used to bump into them all the time once I was out in London and saw how many of them ended up leaving the membership with ladies who weren't their wives.&
"I'd go as far as saying all footballers are cheats – or a minimum of I've never recognized a trustworthy one. I hope there are exceptions however I'd be stunned.
Nicola even teased she still receives messages to today but doesn't give the footballer in query the satisfaction of believing she's read them.
She stated: "I nonetheless get married ones sliding into my DMs now… I shortly open them, screenshot, ship them to Tom after which mark them as unread!
"I never interact at all. It makes Tom snicker because he trusts me and I assume he knows what footballers are like.
A recreation filled with players
There's an extended historical past of footballers who've been accused of enjoying away, from David Beckham to Wayne Rooney and most lately Manchester City full-back Kyle Walker.
Walker, 33, met his wife Annie Kilner, 31, once they have been nonetheless teenagers they usually went on to have three sons together; Roman, 11, Riaan, seven, and Reign, 5.
<!-- End of Brightcove Player --> Lauryn Goodman, 33, had a son with Kyle, Kairo, now three when he was briefly separated from Annie because of a earlier infidelity in 2019.
He fathered a second child with influencer Lauryn, a five-month-old daughter, who she hasn't named publicly, after having a secret wedding ceremony with Annie in November 2021.
Annie is now pregnant with Kyle's sixth child.
Nicola feels loads of sympathy for Annie saying: "You don't mess with a married man, whether or not he's a footballer or a plumber.&
"Nevertheless it's Kyle who I really blame, he owed loyalty to his wife and he has repeatedly cheated on her and performed each ladies."
Nicola ended up with Tom, 43, after being arrange on a blind date by a pal and having their first date at London Zoo in 2005.&
She says: "I went along considering nothing would occur. I keep in mind my sister begging me to& avoid any footballer.&
<!--googleoff: all--> <blockquote class="article__quote"> </blockquote> <!--googleon: all--> "However once we met I fell in love. Inside three dates I was making an attempt on wedding ceremony clothes, I imagined us as Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee, getting married nearly immediately.&
"That didn't happen – however within three weeks I'd moved north to be with him as he was enjoying for Barnsley then.&
"And inside 9 months I was pregnant with Rocky – who's now 17. I obtained my ft firmly beneath the carpet."
Stiff competition
The couple went on to have their son, Striker, now 13, in 2010 but Nicola admits life married to a footballer hasn't all the time been straightforward.
She says: "I'm only too conscious how many ladies need to be with a footballer.
"Within the early days we'd go out collectively, and ladies would literally push me out of the best way to try to get to him.&
"He was all the time sensible and would inform them, 'You've simply moved my girlfriend out of the best way, now p*** off.'
<!--googleoff: all--> <blockquote class="article__quote"> </blockquote> <!--googleon: all--> "I really like football anyway so I'd go to all his games, if they gained I observed hordes of women going alongside to the local club hoping to assist them 'rejoice.'&
"They soon stopped concentrating on Tom once they realised I wasn't one to be messed with.&
"However ladies set out to sleep with footballers – they see WAG as a job title and a approach of getting out of the every day grind.
"They intentionally go to the restaurants and clubs they know footballers might be at, a few of them even get jobs there. They make associates with footballers' pals to try to get closer to footballers.&
"One woman is at a footballer's beck and call. She waits for his textual content to say his girlfriend is out and goes and meets him for an hour to have sex – it's loopy.
Nicola believes footballers behave 'appallingly' and does not approve of their behaviour, or of the ladies who fawn over them.
"Ladies ought to have extra self-respect and not simply accept it.
"I'm educating my sons to be respectful to ladies, and if I had a daughter I'd be mortified if she behaved like a number of the wannabe WAGS."
All the wannabe WAGS is likely one of the reasons that 15 years after their wedding ceremony, Nicola still retains a agency eye on Tom – freely admitting to maintaining tabs on him wherever he goes.
Retaining tabs
Nicola says the one software you want today is social media and in her own phrases, she is 'a grasp at it'.
"If he goes on a boys' night time out, I will verify which restaurant he's at, then I'll take a look at the restaurant's Instagram, after which examine anybody who's boasted about being there.
Nicola keeps shut tabs on hubby Tom when he's out and about, even going so far as checking his follower rely to see if it rises.
"He now has a concierge company in Las Vegas and every time he goes there I will examine what number of followers he has earlier than, and how many he has adopted and if the number modifications I'll take a look at the brand new individual.
"Tom is aware of I do it, we snicker about it. But I feel it's smart to stay on prime of it and nip anything within the bud.
"However I'm not the clingy sort, I'm not all the time on the telephone, if something he calls me far more and I'll inform him I'm busy."
<!--googleoff: all--> <blockquote class="article__quote"> </blockquote> <!--googleon: all--> Nicola says that whereas being a WAG is a dream for many ladies, it can be removed from straightforward.
She says, "The lads transfer round to totally different clubs, and once they get there they have a ready-made workforce of pals. But for us WAGs it's arduous.
"We've utterly uprooted our lives and have to seek out new associates and get used to a new place with very little help.&
"Equally there's a huge quantity of strain to all the time look good – although my work first as a glamour model and now as a TV presenter demands that too.
"I all the time need to be beautiful for Tom. I even gave delivery with a full face of makeup and didn't moo like a cow as I didn't need to put him off me."
The one approach is footballers
Despite her misgivings about marrying a footballer, Nicola says that she and Tom are stronger than ever.
If worst involves worst and Tom hadn't walked into her life, she believes she would have ended up with one other footballer.
She admits: "There's one thing special about footballers. To play professionally you need to be very driven and decided, which is engaging.
A few of the prime qualities she believes they possess are a superb sense of humour, 'peak physical situation' and a sure 'vanity' that makes them extremely engaging.
"Admittedly the money is a bonus, though that didn't play an element in our relationship – I've earnt very properly and invested my cash correctly.
Nicola, who is understood for her candour, didn't mince her phrases for ladies trying to bag themselves a premier league participant.
She stated: "Target a footballer, marry them in the event you're in love with them.
"However depart the married ones alone. They in all probability gained't depart their wife anyway and if it hits the papers nobody comes out of it wanting good.
Recommendation from one WAG to another
Within the wake of Kyle Walker's infidelity, Nicola advises Annie to stick to her own course and to not feel pressured into leaving her husband for worry of judgement or to seem 'weak' publically.
Nicola stated: "The only individual that is weak in this is Kyle who needed to have his cake and eat it and couldn't resist temptation and messed about his spouse and youngsters – but so many men do.
"I feel all men both cheat or have the capability to and footballers simply have a whole lot of opportunities."
Nicola believes marriage is far more than simply sex, and that if Kyle really believes Annie is his 'soul-mate', she must weigh up the pros and cons of staying with him for the sake of their household.
"She has to consider whether she can be happier with out him or with him."
However just as she holds an in depth eye on her husband Tom, she admits provisions would have to be made so Annie would have peace of mind within their relationship, saying 'she'd maintain very close tabs on him.
"For example if it's an away recreation to point out her the schedule and see whether or not he truly needs to stay away afterwards.
"I feel the actual disgrace is that it's all been made so public but she mustn't be swayed by public opinion – she needs to take the time to determine what she needs to do. I feel it exhibits power to remain."
Lauryn Goodman has had two youngsters with city participant Kyle Walker[/caption]
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